Have you ever noticed that there are a lot of superheroes that wear capes?
I guess that they are more interested in the superpowers afforded by wearing
these capes than in making a fashion statement. Personally, I would like to
have both, but since I can only fly in my dreams, I have to settle for
making the fashion statement.
Such was the case on this past Tuesday night.
Chuck and I had decided earlier that day to go out to celebrate Valentine's
Day because he was leaving town on a business trip for the rest of the week.
He also said that he would be willing to take some pictures for me. Sweet!
When I came home from work, it was clear that he had had a VERY tough
day at work. Yet he still insisted that he wanted to take the pictures.
As we headed to the location, it started to get dark. Very dark. I assured
him that I was fine with canceling the photo shoot and just going to
dinner. Again, he insisted on wanting to take the pictures.
As we pulled up at the warehouse, it started to rain. We had to make a
mad dash for cover. Then, the rain turned into what the Weather
Channel referred to as ice pellets. And not just a few. There was a
downpour of ice pellets bouncing off our car and the porch under which
we had taken refuge.
It was completely dark by this time and Chuck had left the headlights on
so that we would be able to see what we were doing. Here we were in a
rundown part of town, in the frozen dark, being pounded with ice pellets.
But still he persevered in carrying out his promise.
Such ideal conditions for taking pictures!
Later, at dinner, he explained why it was important to him to take those
pictures inspite of his bad day and the daunting weather conditions. With
two kids in college, money is usually tight. He wanted to do something
special for me and this was a way that he could show me that he cares.
It didn't cost him a dime, but to me it was priceless.
I'm writing this on Valentine's night. We are on opposite sides of the state
but that really doesn't matter. Love is not constrained by distance nor
is it limited to grand gestures. Chuck proved that we don't need a commercial
holiday to honor each other and it doesn't have to cost a lot of money.
He is so wonderful at cherishing me and showing his love in ways that far
surpass flowers or cards.
Actually, he's better at it than I am. I need to do a better job of honoring
him. And I have an amazing teacher from whom I can learn.
So, the true superhero of this post was behind the camera. He wasn't wearing
a cape, just his heart on his sleeve.
Here we are on Valentine's Day 2012. He made reservations for
us at Waffle House. Yes, you read that correctly. Reservations at
Waffle House. But that's a story for another day!
Thank you, Chuck! I love you!
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Brown D&Y military cap--$8.99 Ross
Croft & Barrow brown/teal fringed cape--$4.94 Thrifted
Merona brown turtleneck--$4.94 Thrifted
Maurice's brown/cream toggle front hooded vest--$2.92 Thrifted
Be Bop brown cord skinnies--$19.99 Marshall's
Dollhouse fleece cuffed brown lace-up boots--$22.99 Ross











This post is so sweet. I too am married to someone who has taught me how to put the other first and so many other life lessons. I'm truly lucky as I can see you are.
ReplyDeleteI can't believe how well you match your surroundings again. That little bit of teal blue at the bottom of the gorgeous cape matches the paint spatters on the brick! Are you sure you aren't planning this? ;)
Love that vest underneath too. I just love vest and need to post in one I found on ebay.
See you soon!
Great cape! I love brown and blue together and the boho feel of this cape with its paisley border! I love how it matches the colour of the wall too!
ReplyDeleteI loved reading this sweet story about love. you're so right, it has nothing to do with fancy dinners or jewelry. It's the gestures of love that count. Your outfit is fab, by the way! And thanks for sharing it with Visible Monday.
ReplyDeleteWhat a wonderful Valentine you have! That's such a good story, and reminds me to appreciate Mr. Sparkle more. In fact, he gave me a cape like that when we were first married, but in black and gray. I never wore it and finally got rid of it during a move. Now I wish I'd kept it so I could copy your look! What a brilliant idea wearing over a hoodie vest - it makes it look really cool.
ReplyDeleteAs an aside, you have a beautiful smile in that last picture - you should smile more in your style shots.
Fabulous outfit... but even more impotently... a sweet, sweet love post! Your story is relationship inspiration...thank you for sharing my dear!
ReplyDeleteBeautiful rich browns and blues!! Lovely text, too I agree with Val about the smile- you look radiant!! A date at Waffle House? I tell my husband that so long as he's there, I'm happy to go along wherever. Sounds like you've got a sweetheart of a guy too.
ReplyDeleteVery sweet story and a wonderful confirmation of how much you mean to him! i love when my husband does things like that say he understands what makes me tick... thanks for sharing!
ReplyDeleteI loved reading this post. It's always fun to 'see' fun and beautiful fashion ideas but to know they come from 'real' women makes them even more beautiful. You look amazing, as always.
ReplyDeleteThis post is a beautiful Valentine tribute to your husband. His love for you shows in the great pictures he took under not-so-ideal conditions. What a sweetheart he is! The outfit is fabulous, too.
ReplyDeleteHeather from Friendship, Life and Style
Marvellous pictures of a beautiful crusader! Seems the right surrounding found you again. I love your brown outfit and this marvellous cape. And I love your story, you have a wonderful photographer. On every pic I can see that what he does he does with love.
ReplyDeleteThe thing my DH does that makes me happiest is to bring in the newspaper for me in the morning. It means so much more than flowers or candy. You are lucky to have such a wonderful and handsome husband.
ReplyDeleteI think superheros wear capes so you can see it flying behind them in the wind, making them look cool. But they would not look as cool as you do in this caped outfit. The boots look so chic and warm too. Your photos and you look beautiful!
Blue and a cool brown. Excellent. Sweet little vest, as well. What a handsome couple ... hope you get a belated V-Day!
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